Community Guidelines

These sit alongside the Terms of Service. Breaking them can cost you your account.

Never allowed

  • Coercion, pressure, or anything that overrides a clear “no”
  • Harassment, stalking, or repeated unwanted contact
  • Threats, intimidation, blackmail, or extortion
  • Non-consensual imagery — sharing anyone’s intimate or private images without consent
  • Hidden recording, screenshots of private galleries or messages, or re-posting others’ media
  • Anyone under 18, or content that sexualises minors, in any form
  • Prostitution, escorting, commercial sexual services, or advertising/soliciting them
  • Human trafficking or facilitating it, and any exploitation of another person
  • Hate speech, racism, or attacks based on protected characteristics
  • Impersonation, catfishing, or misrepresenting who you are
  • Doxxing or sharing another person’s private information
  • Violence, weapons, gore, or promotion of self-harm
  • Illegal drugs or their sale
  • Spam, scams, phishing, or payment/crypto solicitation

Consent is the whole point

Every interaction here is between consenting adults. Enthusiastic, informed, ongoing consent — and the freedom to change your mind at any time. Respect boundaries the first time.

Report and we act

Every profile, photo, message, event, and post can be reported. Reports are triaged by risk; “underage concern” and “illegal content” are the highest-priority queues and are monitored around the clock. Blocking is immediate and mutual — a blocked member cannot see, find, or contact you.

Enforcement

Depending on severity we may remove content, limit reach, suspend, or permanently ban an account. Serious cases — suspected minors, non-consensual imagery, threats, trafficking — trigger immediate suspension and, where required, preservation of evidence and a report to the relevant authorities.

Appeals

If you believe an action was a mistake, you can appeal by contacting the safety team through the report function or the contact address in the Privacy Policy. A different reviewer will look at it.

In danger or aware of a crime in progress? Contact local law enforcement first, then report it here. Suspected child sexual abuse material is reported to NCMEC as required by law — see the Legal & Safety page.